Friendship between sexes

Relationship with an opposite sex can be very tricky and even challenging sometimes. It is very hard to control the precise distance between you and this friend. Shouldn’t be too close, especially for a female to a male, for it has long been said that most males are very easily misled, taking minute signs and clues as suggestive signals. A female’s hospitality and kindness may wrongfully, and unfortunately, be taken as romantic cues, or even propositions. True, it is very sad to a female whose friendliness is mistaken as some sort of suggestions. But it is even sadder for a male to find out in the end that the euphoria is just an illusory dream.

Ok, then, let’s just keep distance from them to avoid this kind of unnecessary misunderstanding. But then, you might have even greater chance to become a real bitch (even if you are a guy) – who seems to perceive any opposite sex as a potential threat. This kind of person avoid to display any warmth towards those who are not “sexually desired” so to speak, to ensure no misunderstanding would ever happen. This kind of people is really pathetic and annoying – they reject any kindness from a sexually undesired person. But, hey, not everyone being kind to you wants to sleep with you, ok? You are strangling the goodness of others.

Thus you see how difficult this dilemma is: You are a heartbreaker if you are too friendly and you are a bitch if you are not friendly. And sometimes you swing between these two roles until you totally screw up all the relationship with others.

So what we should do?

Be careful with those who are only nice when they want to sleep with you. Be kind to those who are truly kind to you. Be intelligent to discern between them.